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Make people like you

**Be honest
Always tell the truth. If you have many lies even in the beginning of your relationship with someone, it will not last. Do not build a relationship based on lies. It will never end well.
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**Act interested in what people have to say
If you actually listen to what people have to say, they will remember you for it. They will feel good knowing that you value their opinions. Don't constantly hang on to every word they say though. This will make people feel uncomfortable. Also, people will take your attention for granted. Make your attention something people feel priviledged to have.
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**Pay attention to what people are proud of
It may sound weird, but it works. Pay attention to what people feel are their best qualities and tell them that you admire those qualities in them. For example, if you have noticed that your friend, Sally, goes out of her way to appear patient and calm, you should compliment her, telling her how much you admire her patience. She will think, "Wow, this person really sees me for who I am!"
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**Remember small things about everyone you meet
When you first meet someone, remember something seemingly insignificant about them. If someone mentions that he owns a pet bird, the next time you see him, ask how his pet is doing. He or she will sure to appreciate your thoughtfulness.
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**Like yourself
Be who you really are. Don't changa yourself just to be liked by others. Stay true to yourself. As the saying goes, "It is always better to be hated for what you are, than to be liked for what you are not." There will always be a person out there who likes you just as you are. You don't necessarily need many friends to be happy.

Jai jinendra

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