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Children skills

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* Get Your Kids to Do Their Homework
* Give the Marshmallow Test
* Raise Bilingual Children
* Teach Your Child About Budgeting
* Teach Your Children to Do Laundry
* Ask Your Daughter to Stop Using You As a Babysitter All the Time
* Begin Cooking in the Kitchen (for Kids)
* Button a Shirt
* Clean a Room With Your Child
* Cook For Your Family as a Child
* Create a Household Chore Chart Based on Points
* Encourage a Toddler to Clean Their Room
* Explain a Physical Disability to a Child
* Get Your Children to Clean Their Room
* Give Your Child an Allowance
* Grocery Shop With Kids
* Help Your Child Plan Their Evening Activities
* Help Your Kids Become More Punctual
* Help a Child Learn Easier
* Know What to Teach a Child of 8 Months
* Make Baking Fun for Kids
* Make Cereal, Toast, and an Egg All by Yourself
* Make Sure Your Kids Get Exercise Every Day
* Make Time for Reading to Children
* Make a Chore Chart With Incentives
* Make a Mini Bakery (Kids)
* Prepare Your Child for Nursery School

* Push a Child on a Swing
* Raise the Perfect Future Adult
* Read a Bedtime Story
* Start Robotics
* Teach Children Basic Street Safety when Walking
* Teach Children to Not Be Litterbugs
* Teach Children to Put a Sock on a Foot
* Teach Kids Not to Smoke
* Teach Kids to Play Guitar
* Teach Kids to Wash Their Hands
* Teach Sight Words With Flash Card Games
* Teach Younger Children
* Teach Your Child Time Management
* Teach Your Child to Wash Dishes
* Teach Your Children Good Driving Skills by Example
* Teach a Child How to Read a Book
* Teach a Child How to Spell Their Name
* Teach a Child a Backbend
* Teach a Child the Value of Money
* Teach a Child to Ride a Bike
* Teach a Child to Ride a Bike Using a Gentle Slope
* Teach a Child to Throw, Catch and Hit a Ball
* Teach the Habit of Reading Books in a Child
* Protect a Baby from Drowning
* Tie Shoes a New Way
* Tie Your Shoes


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Basic skill resume

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This resume is a good example of how a skills resume can help someone who does not have the best credentials. It allows the job seeker to present school and extracurricular activities to good effect. It is a strong format choice because it lets her highlight strengths without emphasizing her limited work experience. It doesn't say where she worked or for how long, yet it gives her a shot at many jobs.

You'll get the best results from a skills resume by using it when you have a referral to an organization instead of using it to apply cold or to an ad. Since the skills resume usually doesn't list specifics of work history, many employers will toss it out in favor of your competitors' resumes that do. So, stick with using the skills resume primarily when you're networking for a job.




Objective
Sales-oriented position in a retail sales or distribution business.

Skills and Abilities
# Communications -- Good written and verbal presentation skills. Use proper grammar and have a good speaking voice.


# Interpersonal Skills -- Able to get along well with co-workers and accept supervision. Received positive evaluations from previous supervisors.


# Flexible -- Willing to try new things and am interested in improving efficiency on assigned tasks.


# Attention to Detail -- Concerned with quality. Produce work that is orderly and attractive. Ensure tasks are completed correctly and on time.


# Hard-working -- Throughout high school, worked long hours in strenuous activities while attending school full-time. Often managed as many as 65 hours a week in school and other structured activities while maintaining above-average grades.


# Customer Service -- Routinely handled as many as 500 customer contacts a day (10,000 per month) in a busy retail outlet. Averaged lower than a .001 percent complaint rate and was given the "Employee of the Month" award in second month of employment. Received two merit increases.


# Cash Sales -- Handled more than $2,000 a day ($40,000 a month) in cash sales. Balanced register and prepared daily sales summary and deposits.


# Reliable -- Excellent attendance record; trusted to deliver daily cash deposits totaling more than $40,000 a month.


Education
Franklin High School, 2001-2004. Classes included advanced English. Member of award-winning band. Excellent attendance record. Superior communication skills. Graduated in top 30 percent of class.

Other
Active gymnastics competitor for four years. Learned discipline, teamwork, how to follow instructions and hard work. Ambitious, outgoing, reliable and have solid work ethic.


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Efficient skills for women

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In this seminar, you'll learn how to handle every difficult situation with poise and confidence. Discover how to keep unmanaged conflicts, disagreements and out-of-control emotions from harming your important working and personal relationship…

* How to stick to your guns and not back down on important issues
* How not to allow unresolved anger and resentment damage an important relationship
* Ways to banish anger and frustration when dealing with difficult people
* How to stop people from taking advantage of you
* And much more

In this seminar, you'll learn how to handle every difficult situation with poise and confidence. Discover how to keep unmanaged conflicts, disagreements and out-of-control emotions from harming your important working and personal relationships.


* Not all disagreements have to end in arguments—you'll learn proven strategies for constructive resolutions
* How to respond to someone who gives you "compliments" that sound more like insults
* The 6-step approach to win-win conflict resolution
* How to separate the 2 sides of every conflict—people and issues—and deal with each effectively
* Putting yourself in their shoes—how empathic listening helps you see both sides of the disagreement
* Practicing everyday conflict resolution skills
* 8 critical mistakes successful conflict managers never make
* Overcoming your personal stumbling blocks to agreement
* How to turn the points of disagreement into a framework for resolution
* How your personality affects the way you deal with conflict
* Choosing a conflict management style that fits the situation
* Conflict as a positive motivator: 7 benefits of a well-managed crisis
* Dealing with the 4 most common sources of conflict that lead to disagreements

Getting a grip on your own anger and emotions

* Accepting responsibility for your anger: You become angry, no one makes you angry
* How to understand what's really bugging you
* Chronic anger—recognizing the physical symptoms that warn when enough is enough
* How the appropriate expression of anger is a necessary step to resolving conflict
* Expressing yourself without accusation, sarcasm or hostility
* Graceful "exit lines" that allow you to postpone a confrontation until your emotions are under control
* 7 steps you can take to experience your feelings without acting them out
* Assertiveness, the anger antidote: How to ask for what you need—and get it
* How to stop playing old "hurt tapes" in your mind and substitute positive esteem-building images
* How to avoid tears when you're really angry—and what to do if you can't
* Safe ways to blow off steam without venting it on people
* "What's this really about?" How to get to the root of a problem instead of just battling the symptoms
* Recognizing how anger acts as a defense against feelings you don't want to feel

How to respond to others' anger

* How to validate someone's anger without fanning the flames
* One sure-fire way to let the situation cool down before trying to resolve it
* Avoiding words that act as "emotional triggers" when you're dealing with someone who's upset
* How to respond to a put-down without losing your temper
* How to quickly de-escalate an emotional confrontation with a boss or co-worker
* When confronting an angry person head-on may spell disaster
* How honesty and understanding will help you keep your cool when dealing with an out-of-control person
* Effective strategies for defusing an escalating argument
* How to make sure you're not "asking for" the very behavior from others you find hard to handle

Conflict communication skills

* How to overcome the feeling that negative feedback is a personal attack
* When negative feedback is justified: How to acknowledge your mistake without overapologizing
* The real differences between how men and women handle feedback and what we can learn from each other
* Idiolects, dialects, registers and genderlects: The surprising differences—and similarities—between how men and women communicate
* How to turn negative self-talk into positive affirmations
* How to recognize the difference between valid feedback and a personal put-down
* The common false assumptions about the differences between male and female communication styles
* How to avoid the 8 most common pitfalls to giving negative feedback
* A 4-step approach to delivering feedback that's specific, nonaccusatory and gets results
* Dismissing the belief that "criticism" and "disapproval" are synonymous
* How to address a chronic disagreement and arrive at a mutually acceptable action plan for resolution
* When positive strokes may be more effective than negative feedback in changing an undesirable behavior
* How you can reduce day-to-day hassles by establishing positive relationships with chronically difficult people

How to take care of yourself

* Weaving family, friends and co-workers into an emotional support system
* Relaxation skills you can master to control stress and relieve tension
* How to handle rejection and still feel good about yourself
* Setting your limits—how to say " No" without generating anger or guilt
* What to do when your body says "fight or flight" but neither is called for
* Getting rid of your fantasies of retribution that can do you more harm than the person you're mad

courtesy http://www.seminarinformation.com/qqayxe/conflict-management-skills-for-women

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Jai jinendra.

Dosti

Kuch log kehte hain dosti zindgi hai sach ye hai dosti dosti hai jiske bina na pyar hai na zindgi hai


"CRYING" is start of life ....!
"BEAUTY" is art of life .....!
"RISK" is part of life .....!
But your
"FRIEND SHIP" is "GIFT"
of my life ....




dosti means ek pyaara dil jo kabhi nafrat nahi karta,ek smile jo phiki nahi padti, ek ehsaas jo kabhi dukh nahi deta,aur ek rishta jo kabhi katm nahi hota.

Dosti ka matlab 1 pyara sa dil jo kabhi nafrat nahi karte 1 smile jo fiki nahi padti 1 ehsaas jo kabhi dukh nahi dete or 1 rishta jo kabhi khatam nahi hota.




Friend mean na asking frnd means no reasoning frnd means just beliveing and friend is dot who never belive in lost 33 a lphabets of friends.

Sum moment can never be passed sum feeling can never b passed sum feling can never b stolen sum memory can never be hidden and sum sweet friend just like u can never be for gotten.



Life me kabi hamari dosti k bare me koi galatfami ho sikka uchaalna agar head aaye to vry best frnd or agar tail aaye toh chupke se palat dena.


Humne dil ko 100 bar samjaya k tume itna yad karna chhod de par dilse 1 hi awaz aayi ki best friend ko kaisa bhul jaye yaad karna


Dosti k liye vishwas chahiye ,vishwas ke liye rishta chahiye rishta ke liye pyar chahiye or pyar k liye ek accha dost chahiye aur woh hai aap .


Friendship is not a word .Not merely a relation ship it is a silent promise which says “I was “iam”and “I will b”…A headache 4 u 4ever and everyday.

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Jai jinendra.

Beetay huye din

Hello,

Waqt tha aisa bhi jub hum aapse,
milne ko taraste the|
Magroor aapki aankho mein kisi aur
ke hee sapne baste the||
Gum ki aandhi mein,hamari palko se,
aansoo na rukte the|
Waqt hee tho tha,chala gaya,naa samje tub,
per aaj wo wahi jukte hain,
jahha hum kabhi juka kerte the||



Baite baite socha kerte hain,yaad kiya
kerte hain wo fursath ke pal....
hum phir doherana chahte hain,
jiska waqt gaya hain nikal.....
jee kerta hain aawaj deker ,
hath pakadker kahoo,'mere saath chal'
naa huaa hain aisa,naa kabhi hoga,
khud ko samjaker kah....
aaj nahio kal...
aaj nahi kal....

Is jindagi ki' bhagambhag' mein
hum aur tum kahi kho gaye
apno ke sapno ki parwaah main,
hum aur tum kahi so gaye
kis se kahe ye dil ki baate,
kya the hum ,aur kya ho gaye,||

SAHI HAI---jUB TAK KOI HUMSE BICHAD NA JAAYE|
TUB TAK HUM USKI AHMIYATH SAMAJ NAA PAAYE||
SAMJTE SAMJTE KAHI ITNI DER NA HO JAAYE,
KI PAANE KI CHAHATH MEIN SAB KUCH KHO JAAYE||

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Jai jinendra

A letter to god

Dear God;
My heart is so heavy, and the burden so strong. I look at the world today, and see so much unwarranted pain and struggle. Religious wars, racial wars, wars just to be warring...murder in the name of someone's god. It's all insanity to me. I don't understand.
Women are taken for granted, their love from within their being...men are destroying their souls until they are no longer human. Men make women baby machines, prostitutes, force them into compromising situations, set them up for failure, hurt them, and lead them into traps unawares. Women are doing the same to men, and nowadays, they are doing it to each other.
Governments are seeking to down play education in the name of socialism for domination and control over people's minds and souls in an attempt to create a caste system. I go to my college, and I see students simply..cheating...and no one calls them on it. Their work is not their own. They make the grade, but know nothing of the subject. They don't use their college money for education, but for other things...and it seems that parents, college officials, and the government is saying..."that's ok." The gov't is slapping its hand together with greed..."Here's another one, Joe!!!" and into a category he goes. All this time, welfare agencies are telling applicants, "Sit back, let the gov't take care of you." This is not the ideal of America. It's communism. America was built on hard work by each American. The gov't helped, but each American worked hard.
I see, and look at what parents do to each other, and what they do to the kids. And when they split up, how they use kids as a tool for their own wants and needs. How the parents divide the children between them. The children literally grow up seeking love and acceptance...looking for a parent...and settle for less than what they were supposed to have.
Lord, innocents are getting hurt because of this. And I know that this is supposed to happen. But do you suppose that you could bring your Light again in the world? Let the people at least have a choice once more, before they are no longer able to understand. Save these souls. And protect us from the Evil One, who only seeks to entrap us with our desires, and to kill us by means of our own weapons. Teach us to love, rather than to pursue riches stepping on the other. Help us to raise our children right, that they may be a future to us. Right now, they're taking welfare...and they're destroying America...and no one seems to care. They're on drugs, stealing, signing on to a job, and expecting to be paid for doing nothing and wondering why they get fired, they commit crimes and blame others or wonder why they got caught...then...do it AGAIN...
Lord, please, before it's too late. Smack some sense into these people today. Save us. Save us from ourselves.


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Jai jinendra

Take care

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There are several remedial measures that can be employed at home to make dry skin well nourished and beautiful. Just remember that you will have to follow all the methods correctly. You will have to make it a habit to care for your skin well and properly. To start with, make it a bedtime rule to wash your face with a soap free cleanser and apply a layer of moisturizer before you go to bed. This is probably the longest uninterrupted stretch of time the moisturizer will have to work on your skin. You can use simple olive oil or coconut oil for excellent results. This is a very economical and healthy moisturizer. You can also mix equal quantities of coconut oil and olive oil to increase the effectiveness of this homemade moisturizer. You should also make it a point to moisturize your skin every morning after your bath. At least once a week, you should pamper yourself with a homemade facial. This will help by cleansing and nourishing your skin and keeping it well hydrated. Start you facial by using a face scrub to thoroughly clean your skin. You can make your own scrub at home by mixing any cooking oil or coconut milk and crystallized sugar. Wipe the scrub with a warm washcloth and then steam your face. Steaming your face will open up skin pores and promote the absorption of the face pack. Make a face pack out of a few spoons of egg yolk and a spoon of ground pulses or sprouts. Add a little Fuller's earth to this mixture so that it forms a paste. Allow the face pack to dry and then wash it off with cold water. Add a drop of olive oil to a spoon of warm water and mix it well. Apply this on your face as it is a non-greasy moisturizer.

You can also make a face pack with fruits such as over ripe bananas, papayas and a small amount of honey. Mix and mash well and smooth this over your face for excellent results. Follow a regular skin care routine to keep your skin soft, clean and problem free. About once in two months, you should also get an extended version of this procedure - go for a full facial and try to get it professionally done if you can. You should also make sure you drink large amounts of water. This will also help by keeping your skin fresh and clean. Toxins will also be flushed out via perspiration and urine. Exercise should be inculcated as a daily regimen.


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Say no to stooped shoulder

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Shoulders should be held up and back with no strain put on them

Shoulders should be held up and back with no strain put on them

“Her grace of motion and of look, the smooth

And swimming majesty of step and tread,

The symmetry of form and feature, set

The soul afloat, even like delicious airs

Of flute or harp.”



Stooped shoulders is one beauty ill that is wholly unnecessary. Any girl with a little energy and will power can make herself straight and bestow upon herself a good carriage. It is entirely a matter of doing and persevering. Most of us know remedies for our small failings, but how many of us apply them persistently until a cure is brought about? Few indeed, and more’s the pity.

When starting the reform always bear in mind that the chest must be held upward and outward. When this is done it is not necessary to keep the shoulders back in a forced, strained position, and so make little crowfeet in the back of your gown. The benefits of holding the chest thus are more than one—or two, either, for that matter. If practiced continually it will strengthen the lungs. It will also develop the chest and neck as no masseure of miracle-working fingers can ever hope to. Breathing exercises are also excellent.

Incorrect positions during sleep cause many stooped shoulders. The big fat pillow of our grandmother’s day is the worst kind of a horror. No pillow at all is best, and after one becomes accustomed to sleeping that way it will be found much more restful and altogether comfortable. The best position for sleep is to lie face downward, with the arms straight at the sides. Of course, I am fully aware that most women sleep curled up like kittens, but they can change their ways if they will but try.

The woman with straight, good shoulders never carries her arms heaped full of bundles, for that draws them forward and makes them droop as dismally as an ostrich plume in a blizzard. Instead, the “budgets” are carried with the arms down at the sides. Neither does she clutch the back of her skirt in that bantamlike fashion practiced by the woman of less judgment. The back breadths of her new tailor-made are grasped about six inches from the belt, and held up just so that they clear the ground. Hats worn deep over the eyes are not desirable, this wise woman also knows, for however tightly they are pinned to one’s back hair, they are mighty likely to keep one’s body at an uncomfortable slant.

Shoes of high heels and narrow toes can be bad, for the wearer is plunged forward in an ungraceful and line-destroying attitude. The low-heeled, square-toed shoe—that is now in vogue—is the thing to wear, and blessed be to the designers who expose womankind to a rational understanding of what she should wear on her much-abused little feet!

The tailor-made gown is serviceable as a promoter of good figures, for usually, unless one keeps one’s shoulders back, the front of the bodice proceeds to lay wrinkles in itself and so spoil the good effect that women love as they do their pet jelly dishes and their Dresden teacups.

Other things to be remembered are: Always stand on the front or ball of the foot and keep the knees straight. Carry yourself so that a string extended downward from your chest would reach the floor without touching another part of the body. Do not push your head forward and do not be in a hurry so that you will waddle along like a little duckling with absolutely no grace or carriage. Dress comfortably, have your clothing well fastened, and your gown loose enough to give your lungs opportunity for the full expansion that, for the sake of your health, they should have.

Make sofa cushions of your pillows and sleep always face downward, flat on the mattress. Last, but not least, don’t be a woeful lady and amble along in a disconsolate, sloppy-weather fashion that is so utterly hopeless that I could never set before me the awful task of suggesting a remedy. One of the secrets of happiness and success is cheerfulness. Men and women and even babies like cheerful folk, while they will race their overshoes off trying to get away from the unhappy ones of dismal tales and many worries. Be cheerful, even though the laundress has washed your best handkerchief into a real-lace sieve, or the rains and snows of winter have descended upon your best wardrobe and made a pocket edition of a rag-bag thereof, or even if the gas range has blown itself and all the kitchen windows into the next block. Be cheerful at all hazards! It pays! Really it does!


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Artistic yoga by bharat thakur

This decade has seen the launch of a truly revolutionary and unique approach to yoga – Artistic Yoga. Developed by Himalayan Yogi and spiritual master Bharat Thakur, it is an innovative, dynamic and powerful system of Yoga that affects the body like no other form of exercise. It combines ancient yogic techniques (asanas, pranayam, bandhas, kriyas & mudras), with modern cardiovascular-training and partner-stretches into a unique approach that works on the Individual at every level - the physical level, where flexibility, strength and endurance are the primary goal, to the mental and spiritual levels where awareness of the body, alertness and meditation help bring about a complete transformation.

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BACKGROUND
From the age of four, Bharat Thakur was trained in the ancient science of yoga in the Himalayas by his Guru. He says, “When I returned from the Himalayas, I was amazed to see that the ancient 5000 year old science of Yoga had been reduced to just a few asanas. People who had been practicing Yoga for 20 years, were still pot-bellied!” Realising that Yoga needed to be re-worked to suit modern man, he combined his training in Yoga and his education in modern Exercise Physiology to develop his own system - Artistic Yoga.

HOW IS ARTISTIC YOGA DIFFERENT?
Artistic Yoga is a thoroughly researched, ground-breaking system that helps modern man effectively deal with his ‘acute stress levels, obesity and lack of energy’. According to Bharat Thakur, he called his system ‘Artistic’ because he incorporated many new aspects into it that were very different from the traditional approach to Yoga.

Along with the creative use of Exercise and Yogasanas (physical yoga postures), and Partner-stretching techniques (that help in quickly improving flexibility), Bharat introduced Cardio-vascular training and the concept of Body-Part training into his yoga. While traditional schools of Yoga repeat the same Asanas every class, Artistic Yoga classes are unique each day and focus on only two body parts in a class, thereby achieving dramatic results in body-toning and weight loss (for those who need it). Overall you will experience a tremendous sense of physical well-being!

At the mental and spiritual levels, it works with breath (Pranayam) and meditation (Dhyaan), ensuring that you leave each class feeling energized, yet calmer and more peaceful within.

Bharat Thakur’s Artistic Yoga is complete as Yoga for the Body, Mind and Spirit. Each class is unique and challenging…. so you are never bored! Ambient music is played and the approach is casual and spontaneous, yet at the same time focused. People of all age groups and all levels of fitness practice Artistic Yoga.

WHERE CAN I FIND ARTISTIC YOGA CLASSES?
Currently, Artistic Yoga is taught in India in Delhi, Mumbai, Hyderabad, Bangalore and internationally in Dubai, Kuala Lumpur and Russia. You can attend Artistic Yoga Group Classes at our various studios or request individual Artistic Yoga Personal Training at your home.
Some of the most recognizable Artistic Yoga students include Ratan Tata, Anoushka Shankar, Kareena Kapoor, Saif Ali Khan, Bipasha Basu and Sachin Pilot.

create your old saree to new

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Old sari, new sari?

1. Fashion Designer Raakesh Agarvwaal says, "If you don't want to spoil your sari by cutting it, change the look by making the new and sexy blouse.

"Saris make a great wear during festive season, use embroidery and tassels at the end to give it a new look."

2. "Dye is a great way to change the colour of the sari," says Fashion Designer Roopa Pemmaraju.

According to her, Banarasi saris can be dyed into different colours and made into dresses, which can be worn as evening wear. Add sequins to give it a heavier look.

Kurta craze

3. Team two cotton saris and make multiple kurtas out of it. The sari borders can be used as the sleeves, side slits and a border along the length of the kurtas.

Wear them over jeans, trousers or pedal pushers.

4. Kalidar kurtas are back in fashion so turn your silk sari into a kurta by using the pallu as the yoke and then adding the flare below it.

You can use the same fabric for the churidar or salwar. Pick a readymade chiffon duppatta from the market.

Accessories to die For

5. According to Fashion Designer Nachiket Barve, zari saris can be made into a beautiful angarkhas, which can be worn in three different ways.

"Team it with a churidaar and it will become an Indian outfit, with pants it turns into an Indo-western outfit or you can wear it by itself like a dress," he suggests.

6. If your zari sari is too long cut it short and make it into a potli bag and carry it with your sari. The borders can act as handle or a base for the bag.

7. Give yourself a Chinese look with your beautiful chiffon sari, by turning it into a robe. The robe will be comfortable yet trendy. Use your pallu to make the belt of the robe.

You will need to add cotton lining to make sure the robe falls well and also because the fabric might be a bit transparent.

8. You can also convert your precious zari borders from your Kanjeevaram saris into jewellery. A choker made of zari border will look great on a plain slim gown.

You can cut the border in to thin strips and braid you hair with it. This will add a very traditional north-Indian touch to your look.

Western influences



9. Tunics are very much in trend these days and will stay for a long time. You can make two tunics in one sari.

Use the plain sari along with the border for the neck for a long tunic. And use the pallu area to make a short tunic that you can team with jeans.

10. Think you will be wasting too much fabric making a dress out of your chiffon sari? Make it a double-layered dress.

Let one layer be smaller that the other so that the layers are visible.

11. An evening gown will turn heads at the next party you attend. You don't need hunt for fabric or spend thousands on a designer gown, simply use you chiffon or crepe sari.

Use a zari border to give a belt below the bust area and let the flare fall smoothly to your heels.

A crystal brooch will add to the beauty of the gown.

12. A halter neck dress would be a sexy option for the festive season. Use the border around the neck and carry the same border as straps to tie behind the neck.

13. For an Indo-western look, get your silk sari crushed and turn it into a long flared skirt. Team it with a plain vest.

To make a matching belt, give a canvas base to the zari border, add gold or silver strings on the side and there your belt is ready!

Choli mania

14. Who could forget Madhuri Dixit's chiffon ghagra cholis form the movie Dil to Pagal Hai. Create the same look for your self with your chiffon saris.

Let the length of the sari be a long flared ghagra and the pallu as a spaghetti strap blouse.

15. After making dress for yourself from a sari if you have some fabric remaining make a similar outfit for your daughter. Even your one year old will look adorable in a ghagra-choli made out of a silk zari sari.

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Best out of waste

In the present world where we have cutthroat competition in almost all the fields, it is difficult to survive as a common man! You got to have something that is extraordinary or something so special. This ’special factor’ should come right from the childhood and if you have missed this feel-good factor, let us now try onto your kid so that they do not suffer the challenges as you might have in your past life!

Let us learn how to make best out of the waste! The idea behind this is very simple – to make something that is creative and can draw everybody’s attention. Generally, schools and colleges are coming up with such projects that make pupils learn how to make best out of the waste!

To create something, the pupil should have enthusiasm. This can be developed by encouraging the spirit of doing something new, exciting! Parents and friends play major role in this. Let your kid understand that everything waste is not actually waste and it can be used to make things best.

Simple example is the ice-candy sticks. They can simply be collected and made into some shape –maybe a ship or some tree. Likewise, you can also collect some marbles and gift wrapper pieces that can be very useful in decorating XMas Tree.

There are many things you can make out of waste match-sticks. You can make dolls, ships, animals etc out of matchsticks using glue or any adhesive. Do not throw out your used copies and notebooks. Use the papers to make something creative. You can make innumerable items out of papers such as an artificial snowman, decoration on the walls on some festivals and birthday parties etc.

You can also use your old clothes and other apparels to make Halloween Costumes. You can simply paint them all black with some funny characters on apparels and masks to make the festival enjoyable and exciting.

The creativity lies in your sight and you are the one who needs to use it, keep going, and keep celebrating your waste making best!


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excellent skills for man

A Man Should Be Able To:

1. Give advice that matters in one sentence. I got run out of a job I liked once, and while it was happening, a guy stopped me in the hall. Smart guy, but prone to saying too much. I braced myself. I didn't want to hear it. I needed a white knight, and I knew it wasn't him. He just sighed and said: When nobody has your back, you gotta move your back. Then he walked away. Best advice I ever got. One sentence.

2. Tell if someone is lying. Everyone has his theory. Pick one, test it. Choose the tells that work for you. I like these: Liars change the subject quickly. Liars look up and to their right when they speak. Liars use fewer contractions. Liars will sometimes stare straight at you and employ a dead face. Liars never touch their chest or heart except self-consciously. Liars place objects between themselves and you during a conversation.

3. Take a photo. Fill the frame.

4. Score a baseball game. Scoring a game is an exercise in ciphering, creating a shorthand of your very own. In this way, it's a private language as much as a record of the game. The only given is the numbering of the positions and the use of the diamond to express each batter's progress around the bases. I black out the diamond when a run scores. I mark an RBI with a tally mark in the upper-right-hand corner. Each time you score a game, you pick up on new elements to track: pitch count, balls and strikes, foul balls. It doesn't matter that this information is available on the Internet in real time. Scoring a game is about bearing witness, expanding your own ability to observe.

5. Name a book that matters. The Catcher in the Rye does not matter. Not really. You gotta read.

6. Know at least one musical group as well as is possible. One guy at your table knows where Cobain was born and who his high school English teacher was. Another guy can argue the elegant extended trope of Liquid Swords with GZA himself. This is how it should be. Music does not demand agreement. Rilo Kiley. Nina Simone. Whitesnake. Fugazi. Otis Redding. Whatever. Choose. Nobody likes a know-it-all, because 1) you can't know it all and 2) music offers distinct and private lessons. So pick one. Except Rilo Kiley. I heard they broke up.
illustration of a man using a magnifying glass to cook a piece of meat

Leif Parsons

7. Cook meat somewhere other than the grill.

Buy The Way to Cook, by Julia Child. Try roasting. Braising. Broiling. Slow-cooking. Pan searing. Think ragouts, fricassees, stews. All of this will force you to understand the functionality of different cuts. In the end, grilling will be a choice rather than a chore, and your Weber will become a tool rather than a piece of weekend entertainment.

8. Not monopolize the conversation.

9. Write a letter.

So easy. So easily forgotten. A five-paragraph structure works pretty well: Tell why you're writing. Offer details. Ask questions. Give news. Add a specific memory or two. If your handwriting is terrible, type. Always close formally.

10. Buy a suit.

Avoid bargains. Know your likes, your dislikes, and what you need it for (work, funerals, court). Squeeze the fabric -- if it bounces back with little or no sign of wrinkling, that means it's good, sturdy material. And tug the buttons gently. If they feel loose or wobbly, that means they're probably coming off sooner rather than later. The jacket's shoulder pads are supposed to square with your shoulders; if they droop off or leave dents in the cloth, the jacket's too big. The jacket sleeves should never meet the wrist any lower than the base of the thumb -- if they do, ask to go down a size. Always get fitted.

11. Swim three different strokes. Doggie paddle doesn't count.

12. Show respect without being a suck-up. Respect the following, in this order: age, experience, record, reputation. Don't mention any of it.

13. Throw a punch. Close enough, but not too close. Swing with your shoulders, not your arm. Long punches rarely land squarely. So forget the roundhouse. You don't have a haymaker. Follow through; don't pop and pull back. The length you give the punch should come in the form of extension after the point of contact. Just remember, the bones in your hand are small and easy to break. You're better off striking hard with the heel of your palm. Or you could buy the guy a beer and talk it out.

14. Chop down a tree. Know your escape path. When the tree starts to fall, use it.

15. Calculate square footage. Width times length.
illustrated instructions on how to tie a bow tie in six steps



16. Tie a bow tie.

Step 1: Make a simple knot, allowing slightly more length (one to two inches) on the end of A.

Step 2: Lay A out of the way, fold B into the normal bow shape, and position it on the first knot you made.

Step 3: Drop A vertically over folded end B.

Step 4: Double back A on itself and position it over the knot so that the two folded ends make a cross.

Step 5: The hard part: Pass folded end A under and behind the left side (yours) of the knot and through the loop behind folded end B.

Step 6: Tighten the knot you have created, straightening, particularly in the center.
illustration of man mixing a giant batch of marti

17. Make one drink, in large batches, very well.

When I interviewed for my first job, one of the senior guys had me to his house for a reception. He offered me a cigarette and pointed me to a bowl of whiskey sours, like I was Darrin Stephens and he was Larry Tate. I can still remember that first tight little swallow and my gratitude that I could go back for a refill without looking like a drunk. I came to admire the host over the next decade, but he never gave me the recipe. So I use this:
• For every 750-ml bottle of whiskey (use a decent bourbon or rye), add:
• 6 oz fresh-squeezed, strained lemon juice
• 6 oz simple syrup (mix superfine sugar and water in equal quantities)

To serve: Shake 3 oz per person with ice and strain into chilled cocktail glasses. Garnish with a cherry and an orange slice or, if you're really slick, a float of red wine. (Pour about 1/2 oz slowly into each glass over the back of a spoon; this is called a New York sour, and it's great.)

18. Speak a foreign language. Pas beaucoup. Mais faites un effort.

19. Approach a woman out of his league. Ever have a shoeshine from a guy you really admire? He works hard enough that he doesn't have to tell stupid jokes; he doesn't stare at your legs; he knows things you don't, but he doesn't talk about them every minute; he doesn't scrape or apologize for his status or his job or the way he is dressed; he does his job confidently and with a quiet relish. That stuff is wildly inviting. Act like that guy.

20. Sew a button.

21. Argue with a European without getting xenophobic or insulting soccer.

Once, in our lifetime, much of Europe was approaching cultural and political irrelevance. Then they made like us and banded together into a union of confederated states. So you can always assume that they were simply copying the United States as they now push us to the verge of cultural and political irrelevance.

22. Give a woman an orgasm so that he doesn't have to ask after it.

Otherwise, ask after it.

23. Be loyal. You will fail at it. You have already. A man who does not know loyalty, from both ends, does not know men. Loyalty is not a matter of give-and-take: He did me a favor, therefore I owe him one. No. No. No. It is the recognition of a bond, the honoring of a shared history, the reemergence of the vows we make in the tight times. It doesn't mean complete agreement or invisible blood ties. It is a currency of selflessness, given without expectation and capable of the most stellar return.

24. Know his poison, without standing there, pondering like a dope. Brand, amount, style, fast, like so: Booker's, double, neat.

25. Drive an eightpenny nail into a treated two-by-four without thinking about it.

Use a contractor's hammer. Swing hard and loose, like a tennis serve.

26. Cast a fishing rod without shrieking or sighing or otherwise admitting defeat.

27. Play gin with an old guy. Old men will try to crush you. They'll drown you in meaningless chatter, tell stories about when they were kids this or in Korea that. Or they'll retreat into a taciturn posture designed to get you to do the talking. They'll note your strategies without mentioning them, keep the stakes at a level they can control, and change up their pace of play just to get you stumbling. You have to do this -- play their game, be it dominoes or cribbage or chess. They may have been playing for decades. You take a beating as a means of absorbing the lessons they've learned without taking a lesson. But don't be afraid to take them down. They can handle it.

28. Play go fish with a kid.

You don't crush kids. You talk their ear off, make an event out of it, tell them stories about when you were a kid this or in Vegas that. You have to play their game, too, even though they may have been playing only for weeks. Observe. Teach them without once offering a lesson. And don't be afraid to win. They can handle it.

29. Understand quantum physics well enough that he can accept that a quarter might, at some point, pass straight through the table when dropped.

Sometimes the laws of physics aren't laws at all. Read The Quantum World: Quantum Physics for Everyone, by Kenneth W. Ford.

30. Feign interest. Good place to start: quantum physics.

31. Make a bed.

32. Describe a glass of wine in one sentence without using the terms nutty, fruity, oaky, finish, or kick. I once stood in a wine store in West Hollywood where the owner described a pinot noir he favored as "a night walk through a wet garden." I bought it. I went to my hotel and drank it by myself, looking at the flickering city with my feet on the windowsill. I don't know which was more right, the wine or the vision that he placed in my head. Point is, it was right.
illustration of a man making a jump shot in pool

Leif Parsons

33. Hit a jump shot in pool. It's not something you use a lot, but when you hit a jump shot, it marks you as a player and briefly impresses women. Make the angle of your cue steeper, aim for the bottommost fraction of the ball, and drive the cue smoothly six inches past the contact point, making steady, downward contact with the felt.

34. Dress a wound. First, stop the bleeding. Apply pressure using a gauze pad. Stay with the pressure. If you can't stop the bleeding, forget the next step, just get to a hospital. Once the bleeding stops, clean the wound. Use water or saline solution; a little soap is good, too. If you can't get the wound clean, then forget the next step, just get to a hospital. Finally, dress the wound. For a laceration, push the edges together and apply a butterfly bandage. For avulsions, where the skin is punctured and pulled back like a trapdoor, push the skin back and use a butterfly. Slather the area in antibacterial ointment. Cover the wound with a gauze pad taped into place. Change that dressing every 12 hours, checking carefully for signs of infection. Better yet, get to a hospital.
man holding jumper cables over his head



35. Jump-start a car (without any drama). Change a flat tire (safely). Change the oil (once).

36. Make three different bets at a craps table. Play the smallest and most poorly labeled areas, the bets where it's visually evident the casino doesn't want you to go. Simply play the pass line; once the point is set, play full odds (this is the only really good bet on the table); and when you want a little more action, tell the crew you want to lay the 4 and the 10 for the minimum bet.

37. Shuffle a deck of cards.

I play cards with guys who can't shuffle, and they lose. Always.

38. Tell a joke. Here's one:

Two guys are walking down a dark alley when a mugger approaches them and demands their money. They both grudgingly pull out their wallets and begin taking out their cash. Just then, one guy turns to the other, hands him a bill, and says, "Hey, here's that $20 I owe you."

39. Know when to split his cards in blackjack.



40. Speak to an eight-year-old so he will hear. Use his first name. Don't use baby talk. Don't crank up your energy to match his. Ask questions and wait for answers. Follow up. Don't pretend to be interested in Webkinz or Power Rangers or whatever. He's as bored with that shit as you are. Concentrate instead on seeing the child as a person of his own.

41. Speak to a waiter so he will hear.

You don't own the restaurant, so don't act like it. You own the transaction. So don't speak into the menu. Lift your chin. Make eye contact. All restaurants have secrets -- let it be known that you expect to see some of them.

42. Talk to a dog so it will hear.

Go ahead, use baby talk.

43. Install: a disposal, an electronic thermostat, or a lighting fixture without asking for help. Just turn off the damned main.

44. Ask for help.

Guys who refuse to ask for help are the most cursed men of all. The stubborn, the self-possessed, and the distant. The hell with them.

45. Break another man's grip on his wrist. Rotate your arm rapidly in the grip, toward the other guy's thumb.

46. Tell a woman's dress size.

47. Recite one poem from memory. Here you go:

WHEN YOU ARE OLD

When you are old and gray and full of sleep,
And nodding by the fire, take down this book,
And slowly read, and dream of the soft look
Your eyes had once, and of their shadows deep;

How many loved your moments of glad grace,
And loved your beauty with love false or true,
But one man loved the pilgrim soul in you,
And loved the sorrows of your changing face;

And bending down beside the glowing bars,
Murmur, a little sadly, how Love fled
And paced upon the mountains overhead
And hid his face amid a crowd of stars.



48. Remove a stain. Blot. Always blot.

49. Say no.

50. Fry an egg sunny-side up. Cook until the white appears solid...and no longer.
illustrated directions on how to build a campfire



51. Build a campfire.

There are three components:

1. The tinder -- bone-dry, snappable twigs, about as long as your hand. You need two complete handfuls. Try birch bark; it burns long and hot.

2. The kindling -- thick as your thumb, long as your forearm, breakable with two hands. You need two armfuls.

3. Fuel wood -- anything thick and long enough that it can't be broken by hand. It's okay if it's slightly damp. You need a knee-high stack.

Step 1: Light the tinder, turning the pile gently to get air underneath it.

Step 2: Feed the kindling into the emergent fire with some pace.

Step 3: Lay on the fuel wood. Pyramid, the log cabin, whatever -- the idea is to create some kind of structure so that plenty of air gets to the fire.

52. Step into a job no one wants to do. When I was 13, my dad called me into his office at the large urban mall he ran. He was on the phone. What followed was a fairly banal 15-minute conversation, which involved the collection of rent from a store. On and on, droning about store hours and lighting problems. I kept raising my eyebrows, pretending to stand up, and my dad kept waving me down. I could hear only his end, garrulous and unrelenting. He rolled his eyes as the excuses kept coming. His assertions were simple and to the point, like a drumbeat. He wanted the rent. He wanted the store to stay open when the mall was open. Then suddenly, having given the job the time it deserved, he put it to an end. "So if I see your gate down next Sunday afternoon, I'm going to get a drill and stick a goddamn bolt in it and lock you down for the next week, right?" When he hung up, rent collected, he took a deep breath. "I've been dreading that call," he said. "Once a week you gotta try something you never would do if you had the choice. Otherwise, why are you here?" So he gave me that. And this...

53. Sometimes, kick some ass.

54. Break up a fight. Work in pairs if possible. Don't get between people initially. Use the back of the collar, pull and urge the person downward. If you can't get him down, work for distance.

55. Point to the north at any time.

If you have a watch, you can point the hour hand at the sun. Then find the point directly between the hour hand and the 12. That's south. The opposite direction is, of course, north.

56. Create a play-list in which ten seemingly random songs provide a secret message to one person.

57. Explain what a light-year is. It's the measure of the distance that light travels over 365.25 days.

58. Avoid boredom. You have enough to eat. You can move. This must be acknowledged as a kind of freedom. You don't always have to buy things, put things in your mouth, or be delighted.

59. Write a thank-you note.

Make a habit of it. Follow a simple formula like this one: First line is a thesis statement. The second line is evidentiary. The third is a kind of assertion. Close on an uptick.

Thanks for having me over to watch game six. Even though they won, it's clear the Red Sox are a soulless, overmarketed contrivance of Fox TV. Still, I'm awfully happy you have that huge high-def television. Next time, I really will bring beer. Yours,

60. Be brand loyal to at least one product. It tells a lot about who you are and where you came from. Me? I like Hellman's mayonnaise and Genesee beer, which makes me the fleshy, stubbornly upstate ne'er-do-well that I will always be.

61. Cook bacon.

Lay out the bacon on a rack on a baking sheet. Bake at 400 degrees for 15 minutes.
illustration of a man talking on the cell phone and holding a baby with one hand



62. Hold a baby.

Newborns should be wrapped tightly and held against the chest. They like tight spaces (consider their previous circumstances) and rhythmic movements, so hold them snug, tuck them in the crook of your elbow or against the skin of your neck. Rock your hips like you're bored, barely listening to the music at the edge of a wedding reception. No one has to notice except the baby. Don't breathe all over them.

63. Deliver a eulogy. Take the job seriously. It matters. Speak first to the family, then to the outside world. Write it down. Avoid similes. Don't read poetry. Be funny.

64. Know that Christopher Columbus was a son of a bitch. When I was a kid, because I'm Italian and because the Irish guys in my neighborhood were relentless with the beatings on St. Patrick's Day, I loved the very idea of Christopher Columbus. I loved the fact that Irish kids worshipped some gnome who drove all the rats out of Ireland or whatever, whereas my hero was an explorer. Man, I drank the Kool-Aid on that guy. Of course, I later learned that he was a hand-chopping, land-stealing egotist who sold out an entire hemisphere to European avarice. So I left Columbus behind. Your understanding of your heroes must evolve. See Roger Clemens. See Bill Belichick.

65-67. Throw a baseball over-hand with some snap. Throw a football with a tight spiral. Shoot a 12-foot jump shot reliably.

If you can't, play more ball.

68. Find his way out of the woods if lost. Note your landmarks -- mountains, power lines, the sound of a highway. Look for the sun: It sits in the south; it moves west. Gauge your direction every few minutes. If you're completely stuck, look for a small creek and follow it downstream. Water flows toward larger bodies of water, where people live.

69. Tie a knot.

Square knot: left rope over right rope, turn under. Then right rope over left rope. Tuck under. Pull. Or as my pack leader, Dave Kenyon, told me in a Boy Scouts meeting: "Left over right, right over left. What's so fucking hard about that?"

70. Shake hands. Steady, firm, pump, let go. Use the time to make eye contact, since that's where the social contract begins.
close up of an iron pressing a shirt



71. Iron a shirt. My uncle Tony the tailor once told me of ironing: Start rough, end gently.

72. Stock an emergency bag for the car.



73. Caress a woman's neck. Back of your fingers, in a slow fan.

74. Know some birds. If you can't pay attention to a bird, then you can't learn from detail, you aren't likely to appreciate the beauty of evolution, and you don't have a clue how birdlike your own habits may be. You've been looking at them blindly for years now. Get a guide.

75. Negotiate a better price. Be informed. Know the price of competitors. In a big store, look for a manager. Don't be an asshole. Use one phrase as your mantra, like "I need a little help with this one." Repeat it, as an invitation to him. Don't beg. Ever. Offer something: your loyalty, your next purchase, even your friendship, and, with the deal done, your gratitude.

Bye

Jai jinendra

Make yur man to cook

Once your man starts to cook every now and then you need to go to stage 2 of our plan to get him to cook more frequently. Call allot of your friends over and have them sample some of your mans food. You and your friends need to have a conversation about how sexy it is for a man to cook in front of your man. Now that your man's ego is about as high as it can go. You can sit down nd relax and let your man serve you for a change.




Tips & Warnings

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Make sure you keep an eye on your man the first couple of dishes he prepares.
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Whatever you do don't let him ruin the food or it will be hard to get him to cook again.

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Make your man to cook

Hello,

The first thing we are going to do is literally trick your man into cooking. When you get ready to train your man put on a very sexy outfit, and get all scented up. Play some sensual music as well as your man walk in the kitchen to get a peek pretending to get something to drink ask him to help you do something real quick. Try getting him to do something simple. Make sure you are preparing a dish he really loves. Ask him to put a sauce together for you, have the ingredients you want already on the counter. Ask for advice men love that. You know the honey what else do you think can go in this dish type of advice followed by a hug. You may want to dance a little sensual when your man walks in to get his attention. Your entire agenda is to get him to help you prepare the food. This is not threatening because he's not actually cooking he's just helping.
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Now here is where you throw the bait. The next time your girlfriends come over brag to them about how good your husband can cook. Tell them about the sauce your husband made or something similar, make sure your husband is present to hear you bragging.
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Now you just need to be patient your husband will slowly make his way to the kitchen in a day or so. When he does start cooking you will have to help him in a non threatening way. Remember you don't want him to ruin his first dish so keep coming in the kitchen giving him a hug and throwing little tips here and there. When the meal is finished compliment your man tell him how good the meal was. For bonus points call your friends on the phone with your man sitting right in front of you and brag again. You will eventually have him hooke...enjoy

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College candy

This post is courtesy of our fashionable friends at CollegeFashion.net. Have you checked them out yet?

A few weeks ago a CollegeFashion reader suggested that mixing prints would be a good Fashion Challenge topic. To be honest, I was a little apprehensive — while many celebrities can pull this look off, at first I wasn’t sure how it would translate in real life. After doing some research, however, I’ve found there are many ways to work mixed prints into your wardrobe and still look stylish.

Think you’re ready to pull off this tricky trend? Read on for some tips and sample outfits.

Tips and Tricks for Mixing Prints:

Stick with the same color family. Rachel Bilson (as pictured above) rocks this trend by sticking with black and white.
Many people consider leopard print to be neutral. Leopard print, a hot trend for fall, is an easy print to work with. In the picture above, Whitney Port pairs a black and white striped shirt with a leopard skirt.
Use patterned accessories. Try rocking a printed belt or scarf with a patterned top or dress.
Try a top or dress already made with mixed prints. When the look is built in, the prints will be designed to complement each other, so the hard work is done for you!
Stripes plus florals equals love. This tried and true combination is easy to work into an outfit – it’s the perfect combo to try if you’re unsure about this look.
Be confident! This trend isn’t for the timid. Wear your outfit with some attitude, and everyone will admire your fearless fashion sense.

Now that you know the rules, get some outfit inspiration from the experts at CollegeFashion. Click here to see how it’s done!

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Be bold with family and friends

Hello,

It takes a bold person to challenge family members and friends to make better decisions and to confront her own character flaws. A bold person shines the light on wrongdoing and makes others uncomfortable with injustice. Demonstrations of boldness inspire others to stand for correct behavior. Follow the steps to become bold with friends and family.
Difficulty: Challenging
Instructions

Teach Children to Be Bold
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Talk with children about relationships, alcohol and drugs. Be available when needed.
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Establish and enforce rules so children know boundaries.
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Give each child responsibility. Teach him how to make good decisions. Help children face consequences of poor choices.
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Be candid about your failures and the consequences of those failures.
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Praise the boldness of children when they stand for truth.
Refuse to Compromise
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Shun fear of speaking the truth.
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Keep your conscious clear.
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Prepare to stand alone.
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Remain humble when speaking.
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Be sure of your beliefs and reasons for those beliefs. Analyze new information and apply the new information to choices.
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Pre-plan how to respond to temptation that violate your principles. Select words carefully. Refuse to lift yourself and your values or to put others down. Keep explanations of your principles simple.
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Respond boldly to every situation. Consider opinions of critics, reevaluate your attitude, recheck facts and make necessary corrections when your viewpoint is rejected. Stand for right even if it means taking another position.
Family Concerns
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Explain reasons behind your family's standards so each member understands how to apply the principles.
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Step in to resolve conflict instead of waiting for problems to resolve themselves. Begin working things out even when doing so is uncomfortable or when you must get outside help.
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Look for a person who seeks truth and helps you by using compassion and integrity, when you need advice or counsel.
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Let your family and friends know you're available to help and that you support them when they take a stand for what is right.

Bye

Jai jinendra

Good study enviroment

Hello,

Creating a good study environment takes a little planning. It is well worth the time as the end result will be much more productive study time. Many people fail to do this and wonder why they cannot concentrate. After a couple of times of studying the right way, most people will be surprised at how much they can actually enjoy studying. Read on to learn how to create a good study environment.
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions
Things You'll Need:

* Quiet location
* Natural or indirect synthetic light
* Comfortable chair

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Know concentration is key. Reduce every possible distraction. Turn off the television and go in an area where you will not be interrupted by people. If you can, turn off your cell phone. If you are studying on your computer--don't get distracted by emails and social networking sites.
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Check out the level of lighting in your area. If it is too dim, your eyes will be strained and leave you tired and wanting to close your eyes. Sun is a light that naturally wakes you up and helps you think. Florescent lights can leave your eyes tired as they are flickering off and on and your eyes have to adjust constantly. Indirect lighting over your work area usually works best.
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Choose a comfortable seat. It should have a good back support and a good seat. Now a couch can work just fine for this as long as you don't find your self laying flat after a few minutes. The whole point of studying is to be able to concentrate on the study matter and not on a sore back.
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Turn on some music. Now this is for the person who needs the background noise to tone out all the little noises of life going on. If you find your self thinking about the song then maybe silence is better for you.
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Keep something to drink and snack on close by to keep your blood sugar stable. Obviously sugary foods will give you a quick rush but you will also have a quick low afterward. Simple veggies or fruit are good choices or crackers--something not too high in calories. Just realize that this is a perfect scenario for mindless eating since you will be thinking about your studies and without thinking you will eat a whole bag of potato chips.

Bye

Jai jinendra

Life adventure

Hello.

1.

Embrace change. Most people deal with a bad situation by justifying it somehow: complaining, venting and ultimately, deciding to stick it out just a little while longer. Committing to change, and following through, is the only true way to discover something better.
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Understand fear. Those who accomplish great things aren't super heroes. They just understand fears nature, and refuse to allow it to control their decisions. Fear is a warning signal, but it is no more than that. Your mind and your heart should be the only deciding factors in making a life change.
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Let go of old positions. Play the devil's advocate, and allow the experience to move you in different ways. The goal is to develop, not stay entrenched in old judgments.
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Develop momentum by trying new things every day. Small steps, such as trying that new restaurant or yoga class, can have a huge effect on your perceptions. The more you break down the old walls of habit, the easier it becomes to truly step out and explore the world around you.
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Build morale by focusing on positive outcomes and building a support network. Don't allow discouragements to tempt you back into old patterns.
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Step back. One of the most effective ways to gauge progress is to periodically remove yourself from the fray and evaluate progress. Think it over as calmly and unemotionally as possible, and decide on which steps to take next.
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Be willing to fail before you succeed. A great life comes from taking great risks, and never allowing failure to stop you. Use each 'no' as fuel for an even greater pursuit.

Increase your intelligence

Hello,

Your brain needs exercise just like a muscle. If you use it often and in the right ways, you will become a more skilled thinker and increase your ability to focus. But if you never use your brain, or abuse it with harmful chemicals, your ability to think and learn will deteriorate.

Here are 5 simple ways anyone can squeeze a bit more productivity out of the old gray matter.

1. Minimize Television Watching – This is a hard sell. People love vegetating in front of the television, myself included more often than I’d like. The problem is watching television doesn’t use your mental capacity OR allow it to recharge. It’s like having the energy sapped out of a muscle without the health benefits of exercise.

Don’t you feel drained after a couple hours of TV? Your eyes are sore and tired from being focused on the light box for so long. You don’t even have the energy to read a book.

When you feel like relaxing, try reading a book instead. If you’re too tired, listen to some music. When you’re with your friends or family, leave the tube off and have a conversation. All of these things use your mind more than television and allow you to relax.

2. Exercise – I used to think that I’d learn more by not exercising and using the time to read a book instead. But I realized that time spent exercising always leads to greater learning because it improves productivity during the time afterwards. Using your body clears your head and creates a wave of energy. Afterwards, you feel invigorated and can concentrate more easily.

3. Read Challenging Books – Many people like to read popular suspense fiction, but generally these books aren’t mentally stimulating. If you want to improve your thinking and writing ability you should read books that make you focus. Reading a classic novel can change your view of the world and will make you think in more precise, elegant English. Don’t be afraid to look up a word if you don’t know it, and don’t be afraid of dense passages. Take your time, re-read when necessary, and you’ll soon grow accustomed to the author’s style.

Once you get used to reading challenging books, I think you’ll find that you aren’t tempted to go back to page-turners. The challenge of learning new ideas is far more exciting than any tacky suspense-thriller.

4. Early to Bed, Early to Rise – Nothing makes it harder to concentrate than sleep deprivation. You’ll be most rejuvenated if you go to bed early and don’t sleep more than 8 hours. If you stay up late and compensate by sleeping late, you’ll wake up lethargic and have trouble focusing. In my experience the early morning hours are the most tranquil and productive. Waking up early gives you more productive hours and maximizes your mental acuity all day.

If you have the opportunity, take 10-20 minute naps when you are hit with a wave of drowsiness. Anything longer will make you lethargic, but a short nap will refresh you.

5. Take Time to Reflect – Often our lives get so hectic that we become overwhelmed without even realizing it. It becomes difficult to concentrate because nagging thoughts keep interrupting. Spending some time alone in reflection gives you a chance organize your thoughts and prioritize your responsibilities. Afterwards, you’ll have a better understanding of what’s important and what isn’t. The unimportant stuff won’t bother you anymore and your mind will feel less encumbered.

I’m not saying you need to sit on the floor cross-legged and chant ‘ommm’. Anything that allows a bit of prolonged solitude will do. One of my personal favorites is taking a solitary walk. Someone famous said, “All the best ideas occur while walking.” I think he was on to something. Experiment to find the activity that works best for you.

Conclusion – I hope you aren’t disappointed that none of the techniques I’ve proposed are revolutionary. But simple, unexciting answers are often the most valid. The challenge is having the will to adhere to them. If you succeed in following these 5 tips, you’ll be rewarded with increased mental acuity and retention of knowledge.

Bye

Jai jinendra

Peaceful mind

20 Peaceful Mind Development Activities

These peaceful mind personal development activities will give you enough tips to master complete inner peace.

1.Meditate

No matter who you are or what you do, you cannot go wrong with meditation. It is the first and the most important step towards peaceful mind.

There are many types of meditation including mindfulness, mantra, breath and silence meditations. I am practising mantra meditation, but I know that most people concentrate on breathing. It really does not matter what style you choose. You should try some types to understand which one is right for you.

You should meditate twice a day for 20 minutes. 20 minutes in the morning and 20 minutes before the last meal. Meditation at these times gives most benefits.

2.Release negativity

Negative emotions disturb peaceful mind quicker than you think. Therefore you shouldn't let any negative thoughts settle in your mind. As soon as you notice a negative thought arising in you, eliminate it by placing a completely opposite thought instead.

3.Be alone

Being alone makes you rethink everything that is important to you. You start thinking for yourself and paying less attention to what those around you are saying. This is crucial for inner peace.

Being alone teaches you to rely on yourself and to make decisions that are best for you. This does not make you selfish, it just gets you focused on what you want in life.

4.Let go of anger

If you don't learn to let go of anger, you will never achieve inner peace. You should forgive and let go no matter what happened to you.

The damage that anger causes is huge. It disturbs your mind, gives birth to all diseases and hurts you soul. Never let anyone make you angry, they are just not worth it.

5.Be in the flow

By going with the flow I do not mean following the crowd. This I certainly do not recommend. By being in the flow I mean not resisting.

You shouldn't struggle against any obstacles in your life. There will always be ways to overcome them.

Your struggling nature makes things hard for you. If you could stop resisting and go with the flow, everything would be so much easier. You would achieve goals effortlessly and with peaceful mind.

6.Rethink negative emotions

Your negative emotions create depressing reality. You shouldn't let negative thoughts settle down in your mind because they are the weeds that need to be completely removed to achieve total peace. Try to always focus on the positive instead.

7.Follow your heart

Following your heart means respecting your soul. If you cannot decide between two things, choose the one that your heart feels better about. You will never be wrong going with such option.

Most people choose logic to heart. But logic is only a collection of our limited beliefs, it is not logical in itself. It is subjective.

8.Control your mind

You have a complete control over your mind. However, if you don't control your mind, someone else will control it for you. It may be your friends, colleagues, media or someone else that will take over this precious asset.

Always keep track of what your main thoughts are. You should think only about things you want to see in your life. You should never dwell on negative thoughts or indulge in negative emotions. This will only make things worse.

9.Think positive

Always think positively and allow only positive thoughts into your head. This way you will have a peaceful mind as there will be nothing left for you to worry about.

It may be hard for you to keep thinking positively if you are surrounded by negative people or circumstances. It this is the case, try to block them out of you life as much as possible.

I would advise to always keep the music player with you. As soon as you notice that something or someone affects you negatively, start listening to your favourite music. This way you will avoid any negative emotions impacting you.

Reading self-help books is also a good idea because it distances your mind from the unpleasant reality. This way your future will be created not based on what you see, but on what you think about.

10.Burn candles

You should have some lightly scented candles in your home. As soon as you notice that you are starting to worry about something, light them. They will create a peaceful and comfortable atmosphere and make your mind peaceful too.

11.Keep house tidy

If you have tidy home, you will have a peaceful mind. There is an exact correlation between these two.

12.Get organised

When you have clear goals and steps to take, there is no space left for random thoughts in your head. This creates assurance, confidence and peaceful mind.

If you have a home office, you should always clear your desk and have only essential bits and pieces that you use.

The same applies to other rooms in your home.

13.Plan your day

Having a clear agenda for a day is a real time saver and it creates peaceful mind. You feel purpose behind everything you do and you become more effective since deadlines keep you focused on important tasks.

Planning your day in advance also makes you disciplined and more committed to everything you do.

14.Use 80/20 rule

To achieve complete efficiency and eliminate useless activities you can try this amazing rule. Click here to read more about it. I've written a whole article about this principle. If you apply this rule, your mind will become peaceful as you will remove unnecessary thoughts and ideas from your head.

15.Avoid arguments

Once you are on a certain level of consciousness, arguing seems plainly pointless. It just hurts both sides and lowers consciousness immensely.

Arguing ruins your mood. No peace can be found in a person full of hatred and anger.

16.Understand mind chaos

To eliminate every possible reason for chaos in your mind, you firstly need to understand the cause of such chaos. Why does it happen? Here are some reasons:

Negative thinking. Negative thinking leads to negative emotions and thus your mood gets ruined.

Negative surroundings. It can include sad, depressed and disillusioned people and places.

Listening to others. People who listen to others never get ahead in life. You should to listen to yourself.

Living in messy surroundings.As I have mentioned before, chaotic surroundings equal chaotic mind.

17.Throw away useless things

Things that you don't use or rarely use serve only one purpose. They are there to create chaos in your mind. By eliminating all of the things that you don't use you will create space for peaceful mind.

After such a clean-up you will feel empowered and creative. This is all because you have taken back the energy that those things were consuming.

18.Become Disciplined

Once you become disciplined, you remove any possibility of chaos. Your mind starts working in an organised way. Your thoughts become purposeful, you don't get many random thoughts. And, of course, this creates peaceful mind.

19.Stop resisting

Follow the law of non-resistance. You shouldn't push against any problems in your life. If you do that, you will only create more of them.

Many people struggle to get what they want only because they choose to struggle. But there is no benefit in that. It is better to relax and expect only good things to come. You will be shown a way around the obstacles as soon as you need to overcome them.

20.Exercise

Exercise is a good step towards peaceful mind as it teaches discipline. Discipline quietens your mind and removes chaos. However, this step is optional. You may achieve inner peace without this activity.

Conclusion

These steps will certainly help you achieve complete peace of mind. However, it is not enough just to read them. You should apply them to get the benefits. And the best time to do this is Now!

After reading 20 Peaceful Mind Activities you may decide to go back to the personal development review section for other great articles.

Bye

Jai jinendra.

Change your life forever

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As you think about your dreams and what's important to you about moving toward your ideal lifestyle, you might realize that we are all either moving toward or away from our dreams at all times.

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Lord

Praise the Lord! Praise God in His sanctuary;
Praise Him in His mighty firmament!

Praise Him for His mighty acts;
Praise Him according to His excellent greatness!

Praise Him with the sound of the trumpet;
Praise Him with the lute and harp!

Praise Him with the timbrel and dance;
Praise Him with stringed instruments and flutes!

Praise Him with loud cymbals;
Praise Him with crashing cymbals!

Let everything that has breath praise the Lord






















It cannot cripple love,
It cannot shatter hope,
It cannot corrode faith,
It cannot eat away peace,
It cannot destroy confidence,
It cannot kill friendship,
It cannot shut out memories,
It cannot silence courage,
It cannot invade the soul,
It cannot reduce eternal life,
It cannot quench the Spirit.
It cannot lessen the power of the resurrection.

I sometimes promise to pray for someone and then I forget or get distracted so I decided it might be nice to have a blog devoted to praying for people. Putting it in writing helps me to focus and helps you to know that I've actually done what I said.

It's a privilege to my friend join me in this so......If you would like us to pray for you post a comment here or at my blog , and we'll see what we come up with. Remember too, the more you tell us the more specific we can be.
Blessings to you,

Sharp yourself

Hello,


Everyone has some type of special talent, so find out what yours is and use it. Be open to trying different things. You could find a hidden talent that you are not aware of. Do you learn from sound and voice pitch or from pictures?
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Maintain a regular exercise program. It will help to relieve tension. Relieving tension alone can improve your thought patterns. The less tension that you have the sharper your mind will become. You will begin to develop a better attitude as time goes on. You should find a program that works for you.
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Some people find that writing poetry can be relaxing plus it is a great way to express yourself. Not everyone writes poetry so find your own mode of self expression. Try sewing, playing a musical instrument, or gardening. Get a Diary and express your thoughts.
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You are never too old to learn. Don't let learning stop just because you're out of school. Go to your local library to gain more knowledge. It is a great place to relax, gather thoughts, and focus on studying. If you have any spare time, carry a book over to the park or stop in at a family restaurant. It all aids in building a sharper better mind, and improves your attitude.
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You should treat yourself as well as you treat others. It will improve the way you think. You will be a happier individual with a sharper mind and better attitude. Try buying yourself a small gift while out shopping for others. It is always good to give, and being generous is nice, but charity should begin at home. Remember, too, that generosity involves more than just material things and satisfaction is not achieved by consumption.
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Figure out for yourself the true meaning of what is important in life. In doing so you will build a sharper mind and a better attitude. For where others may have failed and so never know the true meaning, you may succeed. Search deep inside for your inner self.
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You are truly blessed if you have common sense. There is nothing like good old common sense, for without it how can you possibly achieve having a sharp mind?
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Use your mind more instead of using a calculator or adding machine. This is to say, especially, on simple things that you can easily total up in your head or on a piece of paper. Many people haven't done long division since grade school; give it a try sometime.
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Stay focused on making your own decisions. Don't let other people try to make decisions for you. Be firm about speaking for yourself. And don't be afraid of expressing your opinion. Everyone has an opinion and the right to have one. Who knows, your opinion may catch on.
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You should jog, run, ski, play ball, fish, write, garden, or whatever makes you happy. Doing things that you enjoy will help you to keep your mind fresh and clear and your attitude at its best.
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Learn some basic memory techniques. To start off with, you could find some books written by Tony Buzan (Mind Maps) or Dominic O'Brien: both of them are top people in the memory world.
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Learn from everything you do. When mowing figure out the most efficient route, When reading try to read faster, every detail make look a little better, try to write neat, try to never use spell check, and so on. Because if you are constantly learning you will succeed in life, and you will surpass your fellow workers.
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Learn to improve your mental ability in domains such as logic, problems solving, mental orientation and corrective thought process. It allows one to improve upon rationality and with rationality comes right attitude towards situation.






* Sit down and think it out, what can you do to keep a sharper mind and a better attitude? You'll be amazed at what that you figure out for yourself.


* Don't let others rule your life, for that will make you sad and dull your mind.
* You can simplify arithmetic to do calculations quickly and easily in your head. Let us say that you need to add 433 and 433, well 33+33=66 and 4+4=8. So you'll come up with a total of 866.
* Learn to round off numbers while grocery shopping. Try not using a calculator. Although, one may shop on a budget. If something is .69 cents, simply round it off to .70 cents in your head. I always come close to the exact amount (dollar-wise) at the check out register. This works unless you totally avoid looking at your grocery list, which is not recommended.
* Drink plenty of water. Drinking little water every 30-40 minutes works well.
* Have a great time with wikiHow. It will aid in keeping a good sharp mind and a good positive attitude. Writing is like food for the brain.
* Make yourself a special mental note that being sharp is smart.
* Thinking positive is not only healthy, but it builds a stronger mind with that well adjusted attitude.
* Negative thinking never gets anything done; it is just setting yourself up to fail.
* Sleep is very important to keep a sharp mind and good attitude. But laying in bed tossing and tumbling isn't any fun. So do something to assure that you are tired enough to sleep well. A few hours of good sleep are better than those broken up hours of slumber.
* Try to keep your alcohol consumption to a minimum, and stay away from drugs because they suppress your mental clarity
* Try using your opposite hand to do everyday things, especially writing and printing. Sit down and start writing on a piece of paper using your off hand. It will probably start out like scrawl, but you will gain better control, become more aware of your tense shoulders and body, and able to use both sides of your brain. This exercise is also used for epileptic patients.



* Watch out for people that try to do your thinking for you. However, keep your mind open for good advice. When you have a sharp mind, you'll recognize good advice.
* Don't be a people pleaser, for the wrong kind of people will take advantage of you. If you stay sharp, chances are that won't happen to you.
* Practicing different strategies to keep your mind sharper is good, but such strategies should be used in a relaxed way. One should enjoy while doing it but should not do under any compulsion.

Bye.

Jai jinendra.

Routine life

Hello,

A routine is something that we do regularly, without questioning or planning. Once established, routines require little effort, tracking, or decision making; by definition they become a consistent part of our lives. Routines are ways of doing that don’t require much conscious “doing.” This is what makes routines such powerful levers for supporting behaviors, whether positive or negative.
Our routines can help us or impede us, increase our focus and effectiveness or increase our distractedness. The best routines include those positive distractions we’ve already discussed — meditation, mindfulness, stress breaks, and so on. Positive routines also include all the other things we can do to balance our lives: exercise to refresh our bodies, talking with those we love, reading, going on retreats. These are activities that refresh and energize.

Positive routines are built to exclude severe distractions — the overstimulation and overexertion, without respite or relief, that can lead to anxiety, sleeplessness, depression, and a real lack of focus.

Why is this? Why would the Dalai Lama answer “routines” as an essential element on the path toward happiness and meaning? In what way do routines reduce “drag” and “resistance” and create ease, meaning, and a deeper sense of accomplishment?

Several answers come to mind, which we will examine in more depth:

* We all have routines; why not create positive ones?
* Routines are the way of nature (and we are part of nature . . .).
* Routines connect us to something larger than ourselves.
* Paradoxically, through the structures provided by routines, we can develop flexibility because our minds are so much clearer and our bodies more refreshed.
* Routines can support personal growth and the transformation of old, unwanted patterns.


We All Have Routines, So Make Positive Ones

We all have routines, so why not have positive ones? Do you brush your teeth each morning and evening? Do you bathe or shower; prepare regular meals? Do you read or meditate every day, once a week, or not at all? Do you exercise three days a week, five days a week, or no days per week? Do you eat healthy or unhealthy food? Do you get up at the same time each morning, watch the same television shows, use many of the same phrases and expressions?

Since there is no avoiding routines, why not create routines that are supportive, healthy, and lead toward what you want to accomplish in your life. Routines are the ways in which we take care of ourselves. The three basic routines that I prescribe to nearly all of my coaching clients include the following:

Practice Meditation Daily

I often suggest that people spend fifteen to thirty minutes at the beginning of each day meditating — just sitting, just being alive, just being with their breath. This is a basic “sharpening the saw” activity, in which we are the saw. Meditation practice is a way to slow down, look deeply, and reveal ourselves to ourselves.


Exercise Three Days Per Week

Regular exercise is essential to maintaining our health and taking care of our bodies and minds. By exercise, I mean getting a good solid aerobic workout for at least thirty minutes — such as walking, running, or using an exercise machine at the gym. I recognize that not everyone can exercise in this way, but within your physical abilities, you can still make exercise part of your routine.

Bye

Jai jinendra.

Quotes of happy life

Here are some happy life quotes.

Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it.

Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many.

Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books.

Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders.

Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations.

But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it.

Buddha

People don’t ever seem to realize that doing what’s right’s no guarantee against misfortune.

William McFee

If you’re going through hell, keep going.

Winston Churchill



Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

George Bernard Shaw

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it.

Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it.

Hatred darkens life; love illumines it.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

Challenges come so we can grow and be prepared for things we are not equipped to handle now. When we face our challenges with faith, prepared to learn, willing to make changes, and if necessary, to let go, we are demanding our power be turned on.

Iyanla Vanzant

We can throw stones, complain about them, stumble on them, climb over them, or build with them.

William Arthur Ward

Life is a bridge. Cross over it, but build no house on it

Indian Proverb

It is wonderful how much time good people spend fighting the devil. If they would only expend the same amount of energy loving their fellow men, the devil would die in his own tracks of ennui.

Helen Keller

If we are really to live at all we must put our convictions into action

Margaret Sanger

My life is my message.

Gandhi

Life is an art we are required to practice without preparation, a score that we play at sight even before we have mastered our instruments

Lewis Mumford

Ask yourself whether the dream of heaven and greatness should be waiting for us in our graves–or whether it should be ours here and now and on this earth.

Ayn Rand

Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice.

W.J. Bryan

Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever

Gandhi


There has been much tragedy in my life; at least half of it actually happened.

Mark Twain

The human spirit needs to accomplish, to achieve, to triumph to be happy.

Ben Stein

How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant of the weak and strong. Because someday in your life you will have been all of these.

George Washington Carver

Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing.

Helen Keller

The three grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love and something to hope for.

Addison

Maybe this world is another planet’s hell.

Aldous Huxley

To the woman who complained that riches hadn’t made her happy, the Master said “You speak as if luxury and comfort were ingredients of happiness; whereas all you need to be really happy, my dear, is something to be enthusiastic about.

Anthony de Mello

I like living. I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow, but through it all I still know quite certainly that just to be alive is a grand thing.

Agatha Christie

Don’t cry because its over, smile because it happened.

Unknown

To live a pure unselfish life, one must count nothing as one’s own in the midst of abundance.

Buddha

Our own life is the instrument with which we experiment with the truth.

Thich Nhat Hanh

The talent for being happy is appreciating and liking what you have, instead of what you don’t have.

Woody Allen

It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness.

Charles Spurgeon

We need not only a purpose in life to give meaning to our existence but also something to give meaning to our suffering

Eric Hoffer

Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens.

Circumstances and situations do color life but you have been given the mind to choose what the color shall be.

John Homer Miller

The greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions, and not our circumstances.

Martha Washington

We are here to laugh at the odds and live our lives so well that Death will tremble to take us

Charles Bukowski

Without that innate sense of human worth, a man cannot long endure adversity, nor can he long enjoy prosperity.

Confucius

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Norman MacEwan

My life has no purpose, no direction, no aim, no meaning, and yet I’m happy. I can’t figure it out. What am I doing right?

Charles M Schulz

Everyone is a house with four rooms, a physical, a mental, an emotional and a spiritual.

Most of us tend to live in one room most of the time, but unless we go into every room, every day, even if only to keep it aired, we are not a complete person.

Indian Proverb

There are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year’s course.

Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word ‘happy’ would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.

Carl Jung

The summit of happiness is reached when a person is ready to be what he is'.


Be happy. Take care.

Jai jinendra.